Yes, she's really bisexual. You wouldn't keep asking a straight woman you were dating if she was "really" straight, right? Yeah, it's just as weird for you to do that to a bisexual woman. And on top of annoying questions, she likely experiences a unique form of identity erasure. As a result, I often feel unseen.
What Does It Mean to Be Bi or Bisexual?
The Complexities of Bisexual Pride
But ask a few people about what being bisexual means to them, and you might get a few different answers. To them, bisexuality excludes nonbinary genders , or even erases transgender people altogether. One popular definition was created by bisexual activist Robyn Ochs:. Bisexuality can include both same and different. Bisexuality is a unique identity of its own , not simply an offshoot of being gay or straight. Plenty of bisexual people are attracted to trans and nonbinary people, and plenty of bisexual people are transgender or nonbinary.
Bisexuality is romantic attraction, sexual attraction , or sexual behavior toward both males and females,    or to more than one sex or gender. The term bisexuality is mainly used in the context of human attraction to denote romantic or sexual feelings toward both men and women,    and the concept is one of the three main classifications of sexual orientation along with heterosexuality and homosexuality , all of which exist on the heterosexual—homosexual continuum. A bisexual identity does not necessarily equate to equal sexual attraction to both sexes; commonly, people who have a distinct but not exclusive sexual preference for one sex over the other also identify themselves as bisexual. Scientists do not know the exact cause of sexual orientation, but they theorize that it is caused by a complex interplay of genetic , hormonal , and environmental influences ,    and do not view it as a choice. Bisexuality has been observed in various human societies  and elsewhere in the animal kingdom    throughout recorded history.
At OprahMag. When I first met my now-husband in April , I made a point of telling him about my history of dating both men and women—and how I came out as bisexual at 16 years old to my friends and family, who offered mixed reactions. My friends were supportive; my family didn't quite understand. But that confusion I first encountered with my parents is a common reaction for anyone who identifies as a bisexual person.