That said, there are some subtle differences that can usually be identified. Regardless of the label, addictions of all types are nearly always driven by a desire to escape from to not feel emotional discomfort—stress, anxiety, depression, loneliness, shame, boredom, etc. Most often, this sense of emotional discomfort is rooted not in the moment, but in childhood trauma. In fact, the vast majority of addicts—including love, relationship, and sex addicts—report extensive early-life histories of neglect and various forms of abuse, and these are the unresolved issues that underlie and drive their addictive behaviors. If you are confused about whether you are a love, relationship, or sex addict, the information below may help to clarify your situation.

If we were asked to think of an addiction, we would probably think of substance addictions such as alcohol or drugs. When specifying behavioural addictions, we may consider gambling or shopping but what do we know of love and sex addiction? Is it just an excuse for promiscuity or should we in fact regard it with the same gravity as other addictions? Sex and love addiction is not measured or diagnosed in quantity but instead by the negative impact and consequences associated with the behaviour, on yourself and others. It is characterised by obsessive feelings and behaviours which the sufferer feels compelled to repeat regardless of the consequences.

While addiction is most commonly associated with substances such as alcohol and drugs, it is possible to be addicted to certain activities such as gambling and shopping. Emotional intimacy disorders can also be classified as addictions, with many people addicted to love or sex. Some individuals suffer from both sex and love addiction simultaneously. Sex addiction is described as any sexual activity over which a person has no control.

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